One of my favorite mysteries on the rosary is the fifth
Joyful Mystery...finding Jesus in the Temple. On my prayer guide it
says Fruit of the Mystery: Joy in Finding Jesus. I remember talking
to someone about this mystery and they pointed out that it is also
one of the seven sorrows of Mary.
During this Advent, I encourage you to think back on
when you found Jesus. Did you discover him as a child at Christmas?
Did you find out about him when you were open to listening to someone
evangelizing? Did you seek him out when you were in so much pain,
despair and torment that you gave in to finding out more than his
name?
Jesus is there in all these situations.
I found him when I was a child at Christmas. One of my
earliest memories as a child was putting up a link each day of Advent
that had part of the Christmas story in it. I looked forward to
every night of hearing my mother read the verse and then I would add
that link to the chain.
I later discovered more about Jesus when I attended a
Passion play. I was in college studying theater and I witnessed the
power of drama. Even though I heard about Jesus healing people in
the Gospels, I suddenly saw in this renactment Jesus heal Jairus's
daughter (played by a kid I used to babysit). The moment she woke up
and hugged Jesus made me recognize the power of drama and how it
could be used as a way to evangelize.
Then I toured with a company called Theater of the Word,
Inc. and I saw Jesus in a new way. I saw a frail old priest that
sounded like he was breathing his last breath consecrate the Host and
I saw a transformation. I couldn't understand transubstantiation but
I saw the priest become strong and vibrant and he believed he was
holding Jesus. I remember thinking “I don't know what this is all
about, but he believes the Host is Jesus.”
I became Catholic and I accepted the teachings of the
Church. Just because I accepted the teachings did not mean I
completely understood them. I accepted the idea of suffering but it
would take practicing the devotion of the consecration to Jesus
through Mary several times before I would start to really understand
suffering as I do now.
From my diary entry dated 2016
Catholic art used to freak me out
with a bloody Jesus, because "my Jesus" was clean and
pristine. Now I look at art with the suffering face of Jesus and all
I can see is His love for us...for me. I am (with several others of
my parish) consecrating myself to Jesus through Mary. This March 25th
will be my 5th anniversary of practicing this devotion. This is the
last devotion I would have considered 6 years ago because I had heard
"you could suffer". I thought "Well, I might be
Catholic (I was one year into the Church) but I don't do
suffering!" But every time, I would pray "Lord, I love you
so much. I want to know you better." I would get the reply
"Know my Father and my mother." I was trying to focus on
God the Father, because though I had respect for Mary, Our Blessed
Mother, I thought I would focus on the more approachable person. I
kept encountering people (by the name of Catherine) who would ask
"Are you consecrated to Jesus through Mary?" These people
would be strangers and that would be their opening line to me. I
finally said "Yes" to this practice, I have learned about
how much Jesus loves us...me. Leading people in this devotion, I
have experienced suffering, consolation and joy when I renew my
"vow".
This Lent, I have been focusing on
different aspects of Our Lord's Passion, from the Upper Room to the
Crucifixion. I told my spiritual director that this Lent I feel
guilty that I am filled with Joy every time I look on the Crucifix,
because I know how much Jesus loves me. It could be read as
sick to an outsider that you could look at a man bloodied and
tortured as Our Lord on the Cross and find JOY there, but I think it
is because LOVE is present in that picture of suffering.
But this relationship is a two way
street, if it is a relationship. We all have crosses. Some are
petty that we choose to carry. Some our huge and it is only through
God's grace that we can get out of bed in the morning. We need to
talk to Jesus about these crosses. Ask Him to help us with them or
just vent at Him about the fact they exist. He wants us to talk with
Him, because NO ONE can understand suffering like Our Lord, who
suffered the greatest. Our suffering can also help us to understand
our neighbor, who may be suffering more or less than us. You know
what suffering tastes like, so pray for them and prompt them to also
take their suffering to Jesus.
Now it is nearing the end
of 2020 which has been ravaged by plague, social unrest, and
political maelstrom. This Lent many of us faced not being able to
attend mass due to Covid-19 restrictions put in place by local or
state government. Regular mass attendees, devote Catholics threw up
their voices to cry out in anger, frustration and grief. They could
not receive the Eucharist. I have been reflecting on that as we near
Advent and numbers of positive cases of Covid-19 start to climb threatening the
same actions from our governments. We are so spoiled here in the
Archdiocese of St. Louis. We have a lot of priests and we have an
active prospering seminary. There are states, counties, territories
that wish they could have daily mass, but due to lack of vocations
they can't. They are in the desert. Some of them literally as well
as spiritually.
We as Catholics have the
ability to find Jesus in every moment of our time line. He lived it.
Joy, suffering, surrounded by throngs of people who loved him,
surrounded by those who wanted to kill him and even the event of
being forsaken. If we encounter another time when we must be without
the Eucharist (may we also be without in-door dining, bars, sports
and entertainment too), may we unite ourselves to Christ on the cross
when he yelled out “Why oh why hast thou forsaken me?” Jesus
felt complete abandonment at that moment. We also know that Jesus
had at that moment one person, who had not left him and who loved him
very much. His Mother, whom he gave to be our mother, Mary.
May we entrust ourselves
to Mary this Advent as God once did when He came to dwell among us.